Radically shift your most frustrating patterns without years of therapy

I specialize in:

Sex &
Pleasure

Relationships &
Breakups

Psychedelic
Integration

Confidence &
Magick

It’s not like you haven’t put in work. So why don’t you feel like a an absolute badass when it comes to regulating your emotions?!

If any of these sound like you…

✓ You thought you were past getting triggered by the same damn thing. But one day you found yourself hijacked by emotion, leaving you questioning if all the progress you'd made just evaporated in an instant. 

✓ You've listened to the podcasts, attended workshops, and read countless books, but the shift to “wow–I’m responding to things that used to trigger me in a completely different way!” just hasn’t happened yet.

✓ You feel so familiar with emotions like anxiety, depression, overwhelm, frustration, insecurity, or grief, it feels like part of who “you” are.

✓ The disconnect between knowing what to do and being able to do it consistently is frustrating.

✓ You’re TIRED of feeling the same feelings, playing out the same drama in relationships, or feeling like a passenger in your emotional journey. You’re ready to take control.

Welcome to the
Why Am I Like This? Club.

I brought snacks. →

You try and rationalize away your trigger responses, giving yourself ample reason why you *shouldn’t* feel [insert your go-to emotional state here].

But you still feel it. You still feel triggered by the same events or conversations.

Wouldn’t it be abso-friggin-lutely wonderful to actually change your emotional trigger responses for good?

I’ve f*king been there.

I’ve “worked” on myself for decades. I’ve taken online courses, read an award-winning amount of personal development & spirituality books, scheduled therapy session after session. 

And yet, the same old sh*t kept popping up.

It took me far too long to realize:

Logic doesn’t work because the patterns you keep repeating aren’t in your head. 

They’re in your nervous system.

If logic alone could fix this, you’d already be “cured.” 

I’m here to help you rewire your nervous system, so your body learns how to feel empowered by the literal things that used to disempower you—without overthinking yourself into a tizzy.

you are worthy of ALL that you desire

you are worthy of ALL that you desire

When you integrate change in your nervous system, everything else just “clicks” into place.

You become free – free to enjoy love, to communicate without fear, to trust without forcing it.

No more waiting for the shoe to drop.

You get to be yourself, fully and unapologetically. And trust me, the universe wants that version of you!

Let’s turn your most frustrating patterns into power

  • "I’ve done years of talk therapy trying to improve my sense of security, but in just a few sessions [Jess] was able to teach me ways to access a sense of confidence, security, & self love I’ve always yearned for. "

    – Private Client

  • "For most of my life, I had been operating under fear, anxiety, and hyper-awareness. Slowly but surely (and much more immediately than expected), visualization is teaching my mind to create the outcome that feels right to me."

    – Private Client

  • " I have a more secure relationship with myself and that has translated to having more secure relationships overall. I've been able to be more vulnerable with my partner, communicate more effectively, and experience the deepest, most profound love of my life."

    – Private Client

  • "Talking things through with Jess is always empowering, always brings new points of view and a greater sense of freedom and possibility , and provides both a sense of quantum leaping and down to earth gentle accountability and structure."

    – Private Client

  • "I've literally told people that since working with you, my life has become exactly what I wanted it to be."

    – Private Client

What do you need right now?

Instant Book | 4 sessions

Get immediate, structured support to stabilize emotions, stop destructive patterns, and regain clarity.

Pleasure Alchemy | 6 month container

Deep, lasting nervous system rewiring for unshakable inner alignment & security.

Jealousy Alchemy | 6 month container

Transform this naturally occurring emotion into security. (Yes, you can truly route jealousy to security!)

want to feel different?

You’ve gone to therapy, journaled 1,000 pages, listened to endless podcasts.

It's time to alchemize.

Pleasure Alchemy Emails will help you break old patterns, reclaim your pleasure, and feel as secure as you do in your comfiest sweatpants.