Transformational coaching for:

Relationships

Sex & Pleasure

Self Love

To the beautiful human who’s “done all the things” but still hasn’t felt a dramatic shift

this is your chance to experience what integrated mind-body rewiring can do to release embodied beliefs and re-condition in all that juicy pleasure and power that you’re truly capable of

Together we do deep mind-body reprogramming to release trauma and rewire neural pathways so that the deep inner work, power, and beauty that you’ve cultivated within yourself shows up in your beliefs, behaviors, and relationships.

I believe that the role of a coach is to offer an alternative education to the one we’ve been forced to believe – culturally, in our communities, and through our experiences – so that you can develop an aligned perspective about who you are and what you are truly capable of.

transform past trauma into personal power, cosmic pleasure, and magnetic connection

I offer coaching and workshops to open more pathways to pleasure & erotic vitality and integrate all the parts of yourself into one confident, glorious, sensual being.

  • Pleasure & Intimacy

    Not feeling connected with your partner? Not experiencing as much pleasure as you’d like? Feeling like you have low sexual interest or a desire mismatch? Is sex painful or orgasms hard to achieve? Not sure how to communicate your desires? (Or unsure of what you even want?!) These are all completely solvable frustrations!

  • Empowerment

    Gain a clear understanding of your unique path to pleasure and know how to get what want by yourself and with another. Release shame and embrace self-love and body positivity. Own your authentic sexual expression and feel erotically confident in every aspect of your life.

  • Integration

    Once you’ve discovered your path to pleasure, uncovered & confronted your shadows, and have started feeling the glow of your wins, you have to integrate all of your learning into your being, or you risk falling back into old patterns and ways of thought. My approach helps rewire your brain and your body so you experience lasting, integrated transformation.

  • "I’ve done years of talk therapy trying to improve my sense of security, but in just a few sessions [Jess] was able to teach me ways to access a sense of confidence, security, & self love I’ve always yearned for. "

    – Private Client

  • "For most of my life, I had been operating under fear, anxiety, and hyper-awareness. Slowly but surely (and much more immediately than expected), visualization is teaching my mind to create the outcome that feels right to me."

    – Private Client

  • "Talking things through with Jess is always empowering, always brings new points of view and a greater sense of freedom and possibility , and provides both a sense of quantum leaping and down to earth gentle accountability and structure."

    – Private Client

I recognize that you are fully capable of limitless pleasure, confidence, and power. 

I believe that the more aligned we are with our sensual experience–the freer we feel in our bodies and in our pleasure– the more fulfilled we are as humans. This powerful energy within you can help you heal, evolve, and help others.

In our transformational coaching sessions, I combine practices from somatic, body-oriented sciences together with neuro-linguistic programming and psychedelic integration techniques to give you a holistic path to integrating higher forms of your sensuality and releasing trauma and limiting beliefs so that you can experience: 

  • Greater depth of feeling and pleasure sensations

  • Confidence in your abilities as a lover (to others and to yourself)

  • Transform past trauma into embodied personal power

  • Receiving pleasure without shame 

  • Understanding your paths to and away from pleasure

  • Shift old beliefs that take you away from embodying vibrant self love, inner security, and sensual power

  • Expand your nervous system’s capacity for pleasurable sensation so you can form a deeper connection to your body and experience more desire & playfulness

  • Deeper, longer, multiplied cosmic orgasms (f*k yes)

Here are *some* of my nerdy techniques:

Sensual integration

Sexual expression is an fundamental and natural part of who we are. What happens when we deny our desires, pleasures, and sensuality? Sensual integration is the process of more fully discovering and then incorporating our desires, pleasures, and sensuality into daily life. Shadow work is a necessary part of owning our sensual power which can help us release confusion, guilt, shame, and fear and step into courage and confidence. Integrating the different aspects our sensuality - physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual - so that you can express your sexuality authentically and without shame.

Mind-body rewiring

Science has proven that our thoughts, emotions, and behavior are all interconnected. I use somatic hypnosis, NLP, and mind-body rewiring techniques to help you overcome limiting beliefs and develop more empowering thought patterns. By changing what we we say to ourselves, we can dramatically transform our way of being. This means that we can rewire our brains to feel more confident and experience more pleasure. By reframing our thinking and beliefs about our sexuality, we can open ourselves up to more enjoyable and fulfilling experiences in and out of the bedroom.

Psychedelic wisdom

You do not need to do psychedelics to benefit from their wisdom. My practice is informed by 15+ years of working with plant medicine that has shown me techniques that will serve you in engaging more deeply with your shadows, connecting with your self and with others, and finding your truest self expression. Psychedelics have long held the power to release people from trauma, addiction, and old patterns. I can coach you through integrating your own past psychedelic experiences or through practicing psycshedelic techniques to bring you in greater connection with yourself and others.