Heal your systems

Not your symptoms

neurosomatic mastery coaching for

Relationship Security | Breakups | Self Love | Pleasure

want to feel different?

You’ve gone to therapy, journaled 1,000 pages, listened to endless podcasts.

It's time to alchemize.

Pleasure Alchemy Emails will help you break old patterns, reclaim your pleasure, and feel as secure as you do in your comfiest sweatpants.

To the beautiful human who is “doing all the things” but hasn’t felt a dramatic shift

Here’s the thing. Most of the advice and therapy practices out there leave out the most important driver of human behavior…

your nervous system.

I guide you to work with your body’s natural systems so that changing old patterns is empowering, lasting, and deliciously doable.

  • "I’ve done years of talk therapy trying to improve my sense of security, but in just a few sessions [Jess] was able to teach me ways to access a sense of confidence, security, & self love I’ve always yearned for. "

    – Private Client

  • "For most of my life, I had been operating under fear, anxiety, and hyper-awareness. Slowly but surely (and much more immediately than expected), visualization is teaching my mind to create the outcome that feels right to me."

    – Private Client

  • "Talking things through with Jess is always empowering, always brings new points of view and a greater sense of freedom and possibility , and provides both a sense of quantum leaping and down to earth gentle accountability and structure."

    – Private Client

I offer coaching and workshops to open more pathways to pleasure & erotic vitality and integrate all the parts of yourself into one confident, glorious, sensual being.

  • Pleasure & Intimacy

    Not feeling connected with your partner? Not experiencing as much pleasure as you’d like? Feeling like you have low sexual interest or a desire mismatch? Is sex painful or orgasms hard to achieve? Not sure how to communicate your desires? (Or unsure of what you even want?!) These are all completely solvable frustrations!

  • Empowerment

    Gain a clear understanding of your unique path to pleasure and know how to get what want by yourself and with another. Release shame and embrace self-love and body positivity. Own your authentic sexual expression and feel erotically confident in every aspect of your life.

  • Integration

    Once you’ve discovered your path to pleasure, uncovered & confronted your shadows, and have started feeling the glow of your wins, you have to integrate all of your learning into your being, or you risk falling back into old patterns and ways of thought. My approach helps rewire your brain and your body so you experience lasting, integrated transformation.

explore serivces

Integrate your sensuality and release trauma so that you can experience: 

  • Greater access to shame free pleasure

  • Confidence in your abilities as a lover (to others and to yourself)

  • Power from your trauma

  • Vibrant self love, inner security, and sensual power

  • A deeper connection to your body and experience more desire & playfulness

  • Deeper, longer, multiplied cosmic orgasms (f*k yes)

Here are *some* of my nerdy techniques:

Sensual integration

Sexual expression is an fundamental and natural part of who we are. What happens when we deny our desires, pleasures, and sensuality? Sensual integration is the process of more fully discovering and then incorporating our desires, pleasures, and sensuality into daily life. Shadow work is a necessary part of owning our sensual power which can help us release confusion, guilt, shame, and fear and step into courage and confidence. Integrating the different aspects our sensuality - physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual - so that you can express your sexuality authentically and without shame.

Mind-body rewiring

Science has proven that our thoughts, emotions, and behavior are all interconnected. I use somatic hypnosis, NLP, and mind-body rewiring techniques to help you overcome limiting beliefs and develop more empowering thought patterns. By changing what we we say to ourselves, we can dramatically transform our way of being. This means that we can rewire our brains to feel more confident and experience more pleasure. By reframing our thinking and beliefs about our sexuality, we can open ourselves up to more enjoyable and fulfilling experiences in and out of the bedroom.

Psychedelic wisdom

You do not need to do psychedelics to benefit from their wisdom. My practice is informed by 15+ years of working with plant medicine that has shown me techniques that will serve you in engaging more deeply with your shadows, connecting with your self and with others, and finding your truest self expression. Psychedelics have long held the power to release people from trauma, addiction, and old patterns. I can coach you through integrating your own past psychedelic experiences or through practicing psycshedelic techniques to bring you in greater connection with yourself and others.