You deserve to feel secure in love

I’ll help you stop the jealousy spiral, reclaim your self-worth, and feel secure—without endless self-work

Tired of feeling like that partner?

The one who…

  • Worries when they don’t text back (and tries really hard not to double-text)

  • Finds yourself “just checking” old posts, Venmo transactions, or tagged photos

  • Feels an actual pit in your stomach when your partner is texting someone else

  • Could win an Olympic gold medal in overthinking

  • Just wants to feel normal (but doesn’t know how)

Welcome to the “Why Am I Like This?” Club. I brought snacks.

You want to be the chill partner who knows the “friendly” coworker isn’t a threat to your relationship.

You know that jealousy doesn’t match your ideal self; that it’s damaging your relationship and your self worth. 

But your “higher consciousness” is constantly at war with your feelings.

You’re in good company.

I read countless articles on “how to cure jealousy” (if only!), took online courses, booked therapy session after session. 

And after all of that I just felt worse.

It took me way too long (and cost me my relationship) to realize…

Logic doesn’t work because jealousy isn’t in your head. 

It’s in your nervous system.

If logic alone could fix this, you’d already be secure. 

I’m here to help you rewire your nervous system, so your body learns how to feel safe in love—without the mental gymnastics, overanalyzing, or waiting for external proof.

you are worthy of BIG love

you are worthy of BIG love

When you integrate deep inner security, everything else just “clicks” into place.

You become free – free to enjoy love, to communicate without fear, to trust without forcing it.

No more waiting for the shoe to drop.

You get to be yourself, fully and unapologetically. And trust me, the right partner wants that version of you!

Let’s make relationship security deliciously doable

  • "I’ve done years of talk therapy trying to improve my sense of security, but in just a few sessions [Jess] was able to teach me ways to access a sense of confidence, security, & self love I’ve always yearned for. "

    – Private Client

  • "For most of my life, I had been operating under fear, anxiety, and hyper-awareness. Slowly but surely (and much more immediately than expected), visualization is teaching my mind to create the outcome that feels right to me."

    – Private Client

  • " I have a more secure relationship with myself and that has translated to having more secure relationships overall. I've been able to be more vulnerable with my partner, communicate more effectively, and experience the deepest, most profound love of my life."

    – Private Client

  • "Talking things through with Jess is always empowering, always brings new points of view and a greater sense of freedom and possibility , and provides both a sense of quantum leaping and down to earth gentle accountability and structure."

    – Private Client

What do you need right now?

Instant Book | 4 sessions

For when jealousy, heartbreak, or relationship spirals feel unbearable. Get immediate, structured support to stabilize emotions, stop destructive patterns, and regain clarity—so you don’t self-sabotage.

Inner Alchemy | 6 month container

Deep, lasting nervous system rewiring for unshakable inner security. Break free from overthinking, self-doubt, and anxious patterns—so relationships feel safe, steady, and deeply fulfilling.

Breakup Alchemy | 6 month container

Channel the immense pain you're feeling into self-love and rewire your relationship patterns to have more security, fulfillment, and bliss – with or without a partner. 

want to feel different?

You’ve gone to therapy, journaled 1,000 pages, listened to endless podcasts.

It's time to alchemize.

Pleasure Alchemy Emails will help you break old patterns, reclaim your pleasure, and feel as secure as you do in your comfiest sweatpants.