Your sensual archetype is…..

The Sensual Healer

Nurturing • Generous • Embodied

Your connection to and reverence for your body is your superpower.

You may be drawn to herbs, crystals, essential oils, sound, divination, magick, medicine, and alternative arts for healing and self expression. 

Forming a deep connection to your body may have started slowly for you, as most healers come into their power through self-healing and exploring or experiencing different modalities and practices over time. 

You may have always felt closely attuned to your body’s systems, either through your relationship to food, your cycle, or other biological rhythms that called you to pay closer attention to your body. 

Despite some hardships in this area, you are more and more able to recognize that your body is a sacred and powerful tool for healing and growth. 

Through embodied practices such as dance, movement, and ritual, you tap into the deep wisdom of your body and connect with your natural healing abilities.

Despite the power you have to be strongly embodied, trauma, stress, and societal conditioning may have actually pushed you to feel disconnected from your body and a lack of trust in its wisdom and power, making it difficult to fully embrace your sensuality and healing abilities.

Because this connection is a source of personal power, this disconnect may bring with it feelings of not being yourself, self-doubt, or imposter syndrome–feeling like you’re not qualified or deserving of your sensual power, pleasure, and the gifts you have to offer others.

As a healer, caregiver, nurturer you may tend to prioritize the needs of others over your own.

You may find sometimes that you need to step back in order to fill your cup, but that you feel guilty for needing to take so much time off. 

It can be difficult to find the balance between caring for others and taking care of yourself.

Some days you may push through & feel burned out or exhausted. 

In relationships you may find yourself giving too much and feeling resentful or imbalanced, or you may become enmeshed in other people's problems, neglecting your own needs and desires in the process. 

You may find yourself in a pattern of codependency or avoiding long-term intimacy in your relationships (sometimes both!).

Here’s the thing…

We ALL have shadows controlling our beliefs & behavior

These are the blocks we feel when trying to tap into the full freedom of our sexual expression.

The limiting beliefs that tell us we’re not good enough or deserving of pleasure.

Our shadows are the shame and fear we feel around intimacy and/or pleasure.

They manifest as feeling disconnected from your sexuality, your pleasure, and/or your partner(s).

They create the feeling that “something is just there, holding me back.”

Your top shadow archetypes

Here are some of the characteristic shadows of the Sensual Healer:

The Veiled Confidant – while your outward relating style and appearance may suggest “hey! I’m an open book!” you still have some reserves on your love and what you let in. You may avoid deep connections due to fear of getting hurt, or mask your deep vulnerability with more surface demonstrations.

The Obliging Martyr – you tend to prioritize others' needs and desires over your own, suppressing your sensual and erotic self. Duty and self-sacrifice shows up more often than the pursuit of personal pleasure, which may make you feel a lack of fulfillment in your intimate relationships.

“Everyone carries a shadow, and the less it is embodied in the individual’s conscious life, the blacker and denser it is. At all counts, it forms an unconscious snag, thwarting our most well-meant intentions.”  – Carl Jung

Here are some of the ways you might change when you transform your shadows...

  • You are deeply connected to your body and your sensuality and are able to tap into a wellspring of pleasure and power that allows you to move through life with magnetic confidence.

  • Your partnership amplifies your feelings of safety, security, and independence. You are replenished by your partner’s energy and lean into their support and care. 

  • You know how to give into the balance of helping others and caring for yourself, developing an easy ability to give from a place of fullness rather than depletion.

  • Sex is an important aspect of your physical and emotional well-being, and you step easily into deeply connected sexual that serves to heal and help you grow.

  • Your depth of pleasure is magnified as you connect it to your already stellar awareness of your body.

Learn the alchemical secrets of turning negative experiences into resources and raw emotions into pure power

Join the free Sensual Shadow Magick 5-day Challenge

I created this simple 5-day challenge for people who struggle to let go of the disempowering patterns that undermine their romantic relationships and personal pleasure.

(Side note: it’s FREE and pacckkkkeed with priceless paradigm shifts and pleasure practices so you actually start to feel a different relationship to your pleasure and your power, right away.)

In just a few minutes each day you’ll learn…

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Why the all the therapy you’ve had for the past 6 years hasn’t radically changed how you feel and how you show up.

Critical mindset shifts so you can fearlessly explore and reprogram your shadows (hint: they’re actually your allies)

The most effective way to embody your most empowered beliefs

How to keep moving forward on your sex & pleasure goals using your natural biological rhythms (aka working with, not against, your nervous system)

Your custom recipe to alchemize your past pains, traumas, and maladaptive patterns into pure power & access to pleasure

What you get: 

  • 5 daily audios designed to help you uncover hidden blocks, set powerful intentions, and begin transforming your shadows into sources of power and liberation

  • Your own Sensual Shadow Magick Workbook to make your practice more potent

  • Pleasure practices and rituals to anchor in change through your mind and body

  • Daily emails with short tips and your special challenge video (hello accountability!)

  • Connect with a coven of other Sensual Shadow Magick practitioners (share the power!)

Alchemize your darkest feelings and beliefs into your brightest power

Right now you are standing at the threshold of a new adventure.

One that will require you to leave a version of yourself behind. A version of yourself that is unconscious about limiting beliefs and patterns of behavior that keep you stuck. A version of yourself that tries to convince you you’re fine because (let’s face it) it’s feeling a little lazy about doing the work (or perhaps you have a limiting belief that you’re not worthy of pleasure at this rich a level).

The first step of a journey is always the hardest. And the good news is, just by taking the Sensual Archetype quiz you put your feet in front of you on the path to awakening your full sensual power.

Now all that’s left is one small step in front of the other – which will lead you to the ultimate treasure: a deep understanding of your personal and partnered pleasure and an unlimited activation of your sensual energy.

Will you answer the call?

Meet your mentor

Well met, Courageous Soul! I’m Jess.

I’m not a typical fairytale mentor - I don't have a long white beard or a magic wand (though my Middle Eastern ancestry tells me to throw on some sparkling jewelry).

Instead, I use my activated sensual identity and embodied Archetype to guide and heal others while constantly learning and exploring the limits of cosmic connected pleasure.

My work is about creating lasting change in an aligned mind and body. So you can continue to level up your relationship between your pleasure and your partners long after joining me for coaching or workshops!