Hello beautiful human. I’m Jess.
I am of mixed Lebanese-European heritage, living and working on the ancestral and unceded land of the Chochenyo (Cho-chen-yo) speaking Ohlone people.
I help humans fill their lives with pleasure, connection, and sensual power.
We’ll use a combination of body-based practices together with brain-rewiring techniques so you can permanently shift your experience with trauma and blocks to open yourself up to new, unlimited pathways to pleasure.
I create classes, courses, and pleasure work that make the work feel easy, fun, and rewarding so that you feel able and inspired to take action to transform your life, even if you normally struggle to find time for self-care.
Education, Training, and Certifications
Certified Pleasure Master’s Institute Sex Coach with Sexologist E Michelle
NLP Master Practitioner training with Matthew Barnett
M.A. in Rhetoric and Composition from Oregon State University
Attachment Styles & Sex training with Thais Gibson
Ongoing EMDR & Somatic Processing therapy
Trauma-informed & antiracist empowerment practices
Psychedelic Integration Training with TahKohle
Breakthrough System training with Tony Robbins and Chloe Madanes
Ongoing research in behavior, identity, & sexuality studies
Healing from Heartbreak course with Sheleana Aiyana
bring your LIFE to ORGASM
Make pleasure a constant source of power, energy, and fulfillment.
Your sexual nature doesn’t just show up in the bedroom.
It infuses every aspect of your life: how you look at yourself in the mirror, the things you say to yourself/your partner/your kids/the person you order coffee from, how you savor the food you eat, how you fold your sheets or tackle a difficult problem at work.
Problem is, we’re often unconsciously fractured from our sexual nature. We can’t 100% own our sexuality because it feels too powerful, too primal, too much, or too shameful. We get all kinds of messages from society shaming, demonizing, and dictating “norms” around sex.
It’s likely also that we’ve simply had too much trauma and discomfort around sexual situations and our sexual identity to feel safe embodying our most erotic self.
I will help you rewrite and rewire your relationship with your sexual self so you can experience the highest forms of pleasure and connection.
Being out of alignment with your sexual identity shows up as:
Shame around your body or sexual situations
Not feeling fully present when you’re giving or receiving pleasure
Feeling like you could be getting more/enjoying more but can’t quite seem to feel fully satisfied
Struggling with dating and relationships
Difficulty communicating your wants, needs, and preferences
Not feeling connected with your partner (or during solo sessions)
Feeling stuck, blocked, or frustrated
Being in alignment with your sexual identity shows up as:
Channeling vast amounts of power, creativity, and confidence through your sexual self expression and sexual activities
Feeling connected to your authentic self
Connecting deeper with partners and experiencing more intimacy
Confident-as-fuck, damn-I-love-myself, yes-I-am-a-Goddex every time you see yourself in the mirror
Exploring your sexual potential and unlocking higher levels of pleasure
Finding pleasure and ecstasy in the little, mundane things (and the big special ones too)
Holding strong boundaries and knowing how to communicate with loving compassion
you can activate and integrate the most powerful parts of yourself
Using pleasure practices and mind-body rewiring
When you shed limiting beliefs and external pressures that don’t belong to you…
…when you stop repeating patterns because you get triggered into the same frustrating responses…
…you will unlock a powerful source of transformation, creative energy, opportunity, and delight.
