As BJ Fogg, founder of the Behavior Design Lab at Stanford and all around super smart dude, tells us, “for too many years, myths, misconceptions, and well-meaning but unscientific advice have set you up to fail.”
But there's good news: the habit building game isn’t hard. We just need to play differently.

In the messy months before my ex and I broke up, the voices got LOUD.

You know the ones I’m talking about.

The ones that slip in insidiously when you’ve made a mistake, when you’re feeling stressed and overwhelmed, the ones that are activated when your emotional state dips below your “confident & feelin’ fine” threshold.

The voices that have been there since childhood, expressing your biggest fears.

Navigating the dating world after a break-up can be like walking an emotional tightrope.

On one hand, there's hope - that magnetic pull towards new possibilities, new connections.

On the other hand, we may be bristling with defenses, hardened by the lessons of past hurt and desperate not to fall victim to the same pain again.

This juxtaposition can lead to a maelstrom of emotions, from excitement and confidence to anxiety and insecurity.

Welcome to The Erotic Oracle, your monthly guide to awakening your inner pleasure and power. Through the inspiration of deities, folklore, & fairytales from around the world, we'll explore symbolism and archetypes that can help you tap into your sensual power and release your sensual shadows.