4 Deep Practices to Feel More Secure in Your Relationships

a micro-masterclass for anxious hearts

Hosted by Jessica Alfaqih, M.A.

Psychedelic Sensual Empowerment Coach

Master NLP Practitioner

Imagine…

Being able to feel more secure in your romantic relationship(s)…

Even if you currently struggle with anxiety, jealousy, or insecurity.

Imagine coming to a short daily practice, just like 15 minutes of yoga, that would strengthen your ability to give and receive love without worrying, “Is this real? Can this last? Am I going to be hurt beyond repair?”

Imagine the freedom of being in a relationship that honors and holds the full expression of who you are – without giving weight to the belief that you’re “too much” or “not enough.”

Security is a skill you can practice to create a fulfilling relationship & love more deeply than you ever thought possible.

To all the beautiful humans

with anxious hearts…

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by anxious thoughts or felt unworthy of love, you’re in the right place (and you’re not alone!)

When my last relationship melted down, I had to truly reckon with what it meant to be anxiously attached and co-dependent with some hefty abandonment wounds from childhood.

I faced fierce jealousy, anxiety, and a looooong list of beliefs that told me all the ways I wasn’t good enough, pretty enough, thin enough, strong enough, etc etc.

I started practicing NLP and using somatic strategies to anchor in BIG self love, self trust, and empowered emotions and beliefs. 

I craved a relationship where I felt safe to love without restriction and be my full self. (Spoiler alert: I got what I wanted, and more!)

But deeper down, I learned how to move from anxious to secure attachment because I wanted to feel secure in myself and worthy of love with or without a relationship. 

I created this workshop to help all of the beautiful souls who want to feel secure in your relationship but are held back by past wounds and insecurities.

This workshop will guide you to repattern your nervous system so that you can embody a deep sense of security – with or without a relationship.

You’ll come away with strategies you can use to re-affirm your security whenever it dips (let’s be real, it sometimes will!)

Relationship Security for Anxious Hearts

75 min online experiential workshop

4 take-home Pleasure Practices

A completely new outlook & practical strategy for achieving relationship security

  • "I’ve done years of talk therapy trying to improve my sense of security, but in just a few sessions [Jess] was able to teach me ways to access a sense of confidence, security, & self love I’ve always yearned for."

    – Private Client

  • "For most of my life, I had been operating under fear, anxiety, and hyper-awareness. Slowly but surely (and much more immediately than expected), visualization is teaching my mind to create the outcome that feels right to me."

    – Private Client

  • "Talking things through with Jess is always empowering, always brings new points of view and a greater sense of freedom and possibility , and provides both a sense of quantum leaping and down to earth gentle accountability and structure."

    – Private Client

Hello beautiful human, I’m Jess

I am a Psychedelic Sensual Empowerment Coach of mixed Lebanese-European heritage, living and working on the ancestral and unceded land of the Chochenyo (Cho-chen-yo) speaking Ohlone people.

I help beautiful humans who feel disconnected from their sexuality overcome trauma, release shame, and rediscover pleasure & embodied power.

We’ll use a combination of body-based practices together with brain-rewiring techniques so you can permanently shift your experience with trauma and blocks to open yourself up to new, unlimited pathways to pleasure.

I create classes, courses, and pleasure work that make the work feel easy, fun, and rewarding so that you feel able and inspired to take action to transform your life, even if you normally struggle to find time for self-care.

Ready for a new level of relationship security?

Are you ready to trust in the stability of your relationship, without fear of abandonment?

To let go of past traumas and trust in the uniqueness of your current relationship?

To grow in all the beautiful ways together, and apart?

It’s such an honor to be able to guide you through this life-changing ceremony!