Your sensual archetype is…..
The Crown of Hearts
Empathic • Passionate • Nurturing
You may have had a loving and supportive upbringing with your caretakers, or else you have attuned yourself to recognize and model positive social interactions.
You have a deep understanding of interpersonal dynamics with the ability to read others' emotions and intentions with accuracy.
Because of this, you have a flowing innate sensuality and magnetic charisma that would allow you to charm the pants off most anyone (yup, I mean that literally).
You may be a natural leader and have a talent for bringing people together.
Which is helpful in social situations since you find it easy to adapt to different personalities and communication styles.
Sometimes, you might feel like this makes you “too much,” or that you need to hold back for fear of “coming on too strong.”
Perhaps you like to play it safe by not really letting anyone get too deep into your well of romance and passion.
You may have a tendency to give a lot of yourself to others, often at the expense of your own needs and well-being and this can lead to resentment and a lack of reciprocity in your relationships.
You may also feel overwhelmed by others' emotions, especially if you struggle to set and communicate boundaries.
Perhaps you’ve carried around a sense of emotional exhaustion or end up feeling like you need to "fix" others' problems in relationships.
At your best, you use your emotional intelligence and ability to connect with others to promote healing, love, and understanding in the world.
You have the power to inspire and uplift others, bring people together, and create positive change.
And though your deep emotionality and ability to create connections are your greatest gifts, you may feel blocked by a fear of vulnerability.
This fear can limit your ability to take risks and experience the full range of your love.
You may actually find it difficult to keep close romantic relationships, or you may avoid emotional intimacy. (The irony is not lost on you!)
You may at times feel disconnected and isolated, or like your love isn’t being matched in the way you are giving it.
Here’s the thing…
We ALL have shadows controlling our beliefs and behavior
These are the blocks we feel when trying to tap into the full freedom of our sexual expression.
The limiting beliefs that tell us we’re not good enough or deserving of pleasure.
Our shadows are the shame and fear we feel around intimacy and/or pleasure.
They manifest as feeling disconnected from your sexuality, your pleasure, and/or your partner(s).
They create the feeling that “something is just there, holding me back.”
Your top shadow archetypes
The Shadow Lover – if you constantly find yourself on the “drama rollercoaster” in relationships you may be projecting unmet desires and unacknowledged aspects of yourself onto your partner(s) and relationships. Noticing red flags, setting boundaries, and not feeling bored in healthy relationships might feel hard for you.
The Body Apologist – I named this archetype after Sonya Renée Taylor’s beautiful book, the Body is Not an Apology, a wonderful un-doing of the radical harm done by systems of oppression. If you struggle to love your body in its fullness & in whatever stage it's in, your shadow side might be expressing its need for detoxing from childhood beliefs and cultural beauty standards.
The Wounded Guardian – your inner critic is loud, and let’s be honest, kinda bitchy. You may feel more comfortable when you’re in control & spontaneity may make you feel anxious. Self-criticism, fear of judgment, and constant comparisons are shadow sides of the wounded guardian.
“Everyone carries a shadow, and the less it is embodied in the individual’s conscious life, the blacker and denser it is. At all counts, it forms an unconscious snag, thwarting our most well-meant intentions.” – Carl Jung
Join the free Sensual Shadow Magick 5-day Challenge
I created this simple 5-day challenge for people who struggle to let go of the disempowering patterns that undermine their romantic relationships and personal pleasure.
(Side note: it’s FREE and pacckkkkeed with priceless paradigm shifts and pleasure practices so you actually start to feel a different relationship to your pleasure and your power, right away.)
In just a few minutes each day you’ll learn…
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Why the all the therapy you’ve had for the past 6 years hasn’t radically changed how you feel and how you show up.
Critical mindset shifts so you can fearlessly explore and reprogram your shadows (hint: they’re actually your allies)
The most effective way to embody your most empowered beliefs
How to keep moving forward on your sex & pleasure goals using your natural biological rhythms (aka working with, not against, your nervous system)
Your custom recipe to alchemize your past pains, traumas, and maladaptive patterns into pure power & access to pleasure
What you get:
5 daily audios designed to help you uncover hidden blocks, set powerful intentions, and begin transforming your shadows into sources of power and liberation
Your own Sensual Shadow Magick Workbook to make your practice more potent
Pleasure practices and rituals to anchor in change through your mind and body
Daily emails with short tips and your special challenge video (hello accountability!)
Connect with a coven of other Sensual Shadow Magick practitioners (share the power!)
Alchemize your darkest feelings and beliefs into your brightest power
Right now you are standing at the threshold of a new adventure.
One that will require you to leave a version of yourself behind. A version of yourself that is unconscious about limiting beliefs and patterns of behavior that keep you stuck. A version of yourself that tries to convince you you’re fine because (let’s face it) it’s feeling a little lazy about doing the work (or perhaps you have a limiting belief that you’re not worthy of pleasure at this rich a level).
The first step of a journey is always the hardest. And the good news is, just by taking the Sensual Archetype quiz you put your feet in front of you on the path to awakening your full sensual power.
Now all that’s left is one small step in front of the other – which will lead you to the ultimate treasure: a deep understanding of your personal and partnered pleasure and an unlimited activation of your sensual energy.
Will you answer the call?
Meet your mentor
Well met, Courageous Soul! I’m Jess.
I’m not a typical fairytale mentor - I don't have a long white beard or a magic wand (though my Middle Eastern ancestry tells me to throw on some sparkling jewelry).
Instead, I use my activated sensual identity and embodied Archetype to guide and heal others while constantly learning and exploring the limits of cosmic connected pleasure.
My work is about creating lasting change in an aligned mind and body. So you can continue to level up your relationship between your pleasure and your partners long after joining me for coaching or workshops!
