
The North Star Project
Deepen your relationship to your core identity, so that you transform old patterns of being, feeling, and doing & BE the person who you desire to be.
Where will your True North lead you?
Imagine peeling away the layers of conditioning you’ve collected over the years.
Conditioning from your childhood that gave you core wounds, beliefs, and triggers that show up in your adult life.
Conditioning from your family, community, and culture-at-large.
What would sex, pleasure, self-love, and relationships look like if you quieted the disempowered thoughts and reactions you have, and conditioned in more feelings of safety, expansiveness, connection, confidence, and pleasure?
As a Pyschedelic Sensual Empowerment Coach, I’m in the practice of helping humans realign with their True North – the guideposts that they could see if their path weren’t clouded by limiting beliefs, behaviors, and self-limiting patterns.
Sex, pleasure, self love, healthy relating, intimacy – it’s all connected to the experience of being anchored in yourself.
That part of you that emerges when you clear stories you’ve collected from past experience & collective & personal trauma.
As my personal theme for 2024 is Identity, I created the North Star Project as a container to explore how to use the old feelings, thoughts, and patterns of behavior as fuel for leaning into your core identity.
As a way to connect with your pleasure, erotic vitality, and connection with others from a place of empowerment and confidence.
And rekindling your spirit with your inner child so that you feel more fulfilled and “on track” with the adult version of yourself.
Your entire life you have shed identities like a snake sloughing off its skin.
Some of those identities were glorious and generative – scrubbed off of you by the outside world, cultural pressures, and experiences that dulled your shine.
Others were no longer serving you, plunging you into a deep reckoning with who you truly are and who you no longer wanted to be.
Occasionally you would intentionally design your identity and step into a new version of you.
Other times you were forced to change, or unconsciously slipped into new habits of feeling.
If you’re entering a season of Renewal, you may feel…..
Called to make big changes
Fed up and tired of “the old ways”
Cycling between frustration, depletion, motivation, and longing
Drawn to tend to your inner child or activities from your past
A yearning desire to be and do more
Stuck or limited by stale behaviors and beliefs
Moving toward pleasure away from “ick” with less effort
Like “the walls closing in” – constricted, stuck, blocked
What if you could clear away the unfair and limiting conditioning and activate the most empowered parts of you?
We’ll use a combination of body-based practices together with brain-rewiring techniques so you can permanently shift your experience with trauma and blocks to open yourself up to new pathways to pleasure, intimacy, connection, safety, and confidence.
Start your conversation
I believe that when you consciously choose to reclaim your identity, you will…..
Heal old & lingering wounds
Feel like the best version of yourself
Stoke erotic vitality & sensual pleasure
Turn pain into power, strength, and resilience
Rewire old patterns that keep you stuck and small
Release limiting beliefs and embody new and empowered ones
Amplify your feelings of safety, security, and independence in relationships
Develop an easy ability to give from a place of fullness rather than depletion
Step into deeply connected sexual practices that serve to heal and help you grow
Develop inner confidence and profound self-love that can never be taken from you
Doing the “work” here is a personal investment with enduring longevity.
You will always have these tools and inner resources.
THIS PROJECT IS FOR YOU IF…
You identify as a human. Yay! (I usually mostly work with humans who identify as a woman, womxn, (she/her), non-binary, gender-fluid, and/or queer–but this project is open to anyone.)
WHO you are and HOW you show up matters to you. And you want more for yourself & more to give to others.
You are willing and able to accept coaching and motivated to do the practices to guide you into alignment with your potent personal power.
THIS PROJECT IS NOT FOR YOU IF…
You aren’t willing to put in effort to rewire your patterns and dismantle beliefs that don’t serve you.
Your fear of personal transformation is greater than your desire to explore what your life could look like when you clear the muck of the past & social conditioning and enter into alignment.
How do you book one of the 20 spots?
First, click this project calendar and book a time spot in the project.
Each North Star Conversation is 30 minutes.
Note, a booked call is not a guaranteed spot in the project.
This is your invitation to align with your True North
Hello beautiful human. I’m Jess.
I am of mixed Lebanese-European heritage, living and working on the ancestral and unceded land of the Chochenyo (Cho-chen-yo) speaking Ohlone people.
I help humans fill their lives with pleasure, connection, and sensual power.
I use a combination of body-based practices together with brain-rewiring techniques so you can permanently shift your experience with trauma and blocks to open yourself up to new, unlimited pathways to pleasure.
I create classes, courses, and pleasure work that make the work feel easy, fun, and rewarding so that you feel able and inspired to take action to transform your life, even if you normally struggle to find time for self-care.