How to Build Habits that Stick
Jess Alfaqih Jess Alfaqih

How to Build Habits that Stick

As BJ Fogg, founder of the Behavior Design Lab at Stanford and all around super smart dude, tells us, “for too many years, myths, misconceptions, and well-meaning but unscientific advice have set you up to fail.”
But there's good news: the habit building game isn’t hard. We just need to play differently.

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Are the wounds from past breakups affecting your current or future relationships?
Jess Alfaqih Jess Alfaqih

Are the wounds from past breakups affecting your current or future relationships?

In the messy months before my ex and I broke up, the voices got LOUD.

You know the ones I’m talking about.

The ones that slip in insidiously when you’ve made a mistake, when you’re feeling stressed and overwhelmed, the ones that are activated when your emotional state dips below your “confident & feelin’ fine” threshold.

The voices that have been there since childhood, expressing your biggest fears.

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Feeling Anxious About Dating After a Break Up? The Power of Shifting Your Dating Mindset
Jess Alfaqih Jess Alfaqih

Feeling Anxious About Dating After a Break Up? The Power of Shifting Your Dating Mindset

Navigating the dating world after a break-up can be like walking an emotional tightrope.


On one hand, there's hope - that magnetic pull towards new possibilities, new connections.


On the other hand, we may be bristling with defenses, hardened by the lessons of past hurt and desperate not to fall victim to the same pain again.


This juxtaposition can lead to a maelstrom of emotions, from excitement and confidence to anxiety and insecurity.

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Erotic Oracle: Self-Sacrifice
Jess Alfaqih Jess Alfaqih

Erotic Oracle: Self-Sacrifice

Welcome to The Erotic Oracle, your monthly guide to awakening your inner pleasure and power. Through the inspiration of deities, folklore, & fairytales from around the world, we'll explore symbolism and archetypes that can help you tap into your sensual power and release your sensual shadows.

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Erotic Oracle: Prosperity
Jess Alfaqih Jess Alfaqih

Erotic Oracle: Prosperity

Welcome to The Erotic Oracle, your monthly guide to awakening your inner pleasure and power. Through the inspiration of deities, folklore, & fairytales from around the world, we'll explore symbolism and archetypes that can help you tap into your sensual power and release your sensual shadows.

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How to Release Limiting Beliefs and Old Patterns: A Guide to Self Empowerment
Jess Alfaqih Jess Alfaqih

How to Release Limiting Beliefs and Old Patterns: A Guide to Self Empowerment

Have you ever found yourself feeling like you're hitting a wall in certain areas of your life? Maybe you’ve been in a dating rut or you keep attracting toxic relationships.
It's frustrating to feel like you’re not living up to all that life has to offer, right? The truth is, we all have limiting beliefs and old patterns that hold us back. Most of us run on autopilot, letting ourselves be run by unconscious programming. The good news is that you have the power to release limiting thoughts, beliefs, behaviors, and actions and step into your most empowered state of being.

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Pleasure Prompt: Queen of Coins Tarot Draw
Jess Alfaqih Jess Alfaqih

Pleasure Prompt: Queen of Coins Tarot Draw

There are many ways nature can show up in our lives as a source of power. When you are able to recognize the ways in which nature gives you energy, shapes your mood, and invites you to be more, you can tap into these limitless reserves of power at will.

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