Ever set a big, juicy goal for yourself in therapy only to feel it fizzle out faster than a bad Tinder date?

Maybe you vowed to finally stop overthinking every text from your partner, speak up about what you really want in bed, or stop falling for walking red flags who text back, “lol k” three days later.

Somehow, despite your best intentions, you’re still stuck.

Let’s go into fully sanctioned fantasy mode for a moment.

“I hardly recognized you,” my roommate told me about the months before my breakup finally happened.

As BJ Fogg, founder of the Behavior Design Lab at Stanford and all around super smart dude, tells us, “for too many years, myths, misconceptions, and well-meaning but unscientific advice have set you up to fail.”
But there's good news: the habit building game isn’t hard. We just need to play differently.

In the messy months before my ex and I broke up, the voices got LOUD.

You know the ones I’m talking about.

The ones that slip in insidiously when you’ve made a mistake, when you’re feeling stressed and overwhelmed, the ones that are activated when your emotional state dips below your “confident & feelin’ fine” threshold.

The voices that have been there since childhood, expressing your biggest fears.

Navigating the dating world after a break-up can feel like a double edged sword.

On one hand, there's hope and excitement around new possibilities, new connections.

On the other hand, you may be bristling with defenses, hardened by the lessons of past hurt and desperate not to fall victim to the same pain again.

This juxtaposition can lead to a maelstrom of emotions, from excitement and confidence to anxiety and insecurity.

Welcome to The Erotic Oracle, your monthly guide to awakening your inner pleasure and power. Through the inspiration of deities, folklore, & fairytales from around the world, we'll explore symbolism and archetypes that can help you tap into your sensual power and release your sensual shadows.

Welcome to The Erotic Oracle, your monthly guide to awakening your inner pleasure and power. Through the inspiration of deities, folklore, & fairytales from around the world, we'll explore symbolism and archetypes that can help you tap into your sensual power and release your sensual shadows.

My partner and I love to use cannabis from time to time to breathe new and different energy into our love making.
In this article, we both weigh in on what’s so awesome about being high while having sex and the particular drawbacks that inevitably come with it.

Have you ever found yourself feeling like you're hitting a wall in certain areas of your life? Maybe you’ve been in a dating rut or you keep attracting toxic relationships.
It's frustrating to feel like you’re not living up to all that life has to offer, right? The truth is, we all have limiting beliefs and old patterns that hold us back. Most of us run on autopilot, letting ourselves be run by unconscious programming. The good news is that you have the power to release limiting thoughts, beliefs, behaviors, and actions and step into your most empowered state of being.

Here’s a unique list of 20 things you can try while microdosing to help you connect more with your sensuality, pleasure, and erotic power.

Discover a Psychedelic Guide to Intimacy that will take your relationships to new heights.

There are many ways nature can show up in our lives as a source of power. When you are able to recognize the ways in which nature gives you energy, shapes your mood, and invites you to be more, you can tap into these limitless reserves of power at will.

Here are 14 essential tips for heightened pleasure that will ensure both you and your partner experience a blissful union each time–creating more connection, intimacy & orgasmic ecstasy than ever before.

Consider this your Call to Adventure.