Rage Ritual
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Rage Ritual

We often talk about soothing, regulating, and softening… but sometimes, the truest form of self-care is letting yourself scream, shake, punch, and pound your way back into aliveness.

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"What If" Journal Practice for Expanded Possibilities
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"What If" Journal Practice for Expanded Possibilities

It’s so easy to get locked into a “worst case scenario” mindset. The problem is, that tunnel vision narrows our ability to see that reality may even be different — it keeps us stuck in cycles of fear, frustration, and disconnection… and it limits our nervous system’s capacity to allow the best case scenario to unfold.

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20 Questions for Secure Attachment in Dating
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20 Questions for Secure Attachment in Dating

Having vulnerable conversations (even when they mean revealing your truth) are scary, because the underlying fear is that your share will make the other person leave. If you struggle to verify that you’re “on the same page” or want to feel more comfortable having tough dating conversations, this practice is for you!

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Trigger Mapping
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Trigger Mapping

Many of us are pretty familiar with our triggers. We know them when we’re experiencing them. But when we pause to investigate, to get curious, more patterns and nuances and understanding can emerge.

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